Village Breaks

I am city guy and my girl is from village, does the eductation, finance and social diffrences play major role?

I am city guy and my girl is from village, does the eductation, finance and social diffrences play a major role in our martial relationships. Also characteristics is different, for example she is introvert, conservative, innocent. And thats the reason i feel she is so feminine. Our parents guides me to get married with a city gal with good education and job. Their parents are agreed for marriage. Problem is only from my parents. That means they are not rude. But they are using their experience.

One more thing to say, she is nothing but my first cousin. I promised her four years back that i will marry her. Now what i feel guilty as now i have to break the promise. It pains in the heart. Now i feel will this pain will last for my life time whenever i feel her, see her, talk to her. what i have to do? Confused. whether to go with my parents words satisfying them, be without risk. or go with what my heart says. If i do so, i am worried that the wheather in my house may get spoiled.

Public Comments

1. does love ever play a role in your life or are you bound to do what your parents wish for ever ????????????
2. well, you're the one that has to spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE with her, not your parents... so let them know and maybe y'all can come up with a compromise.
   
   
   
   if it makes you sick now, just wait till you're married with kids and you feel like there's no way out!
3. education, money and villager or a citite does not matter if it is with a truly loved person. nothing stands before true love.If you can stand with a single earning and youtruly love her and she loves you go ahead. it is better to have a spouse who loves you than a spouse whom you love.But bear in mind that a marriage between close blood relations is not advisable. amedical consultation with rh factor test can be done before you decide. if you break your promise for just for your parents sake it will be ever twinkling before you.
4. If you really love her and promised her that you'd marry her 4 years ago than yes you should marry her and not listen to her parents. If your parents have a problem with it then they'll just have to accept that and deal with it. Don't let your parents tell you who you can marry or not.
5. your cousin is a village girl and you are a city man ?
   
   How come?
   
   I know that both are different but I know you love your cousin so you are the same .
   
   the village girls are different they have a difficult life some how and when they go to city they becoume (new rich) (vulgere) in french if its right wrighting so keep away from them .